Relationships
are truly hard to understand sometimes. The start is always beautiful
and the end keeps you wondering how your relationships ever worked at
all.
With
short term affairs you move on and find the next one. But sometimes
when real love develops the moving on can be pretty difficult. If you
still have feelings for your ex and keep wondering whether your ex may
still love you as well, here are the signs to look for.
Text messages and phone calls
People
who are still in love tend to cling on to their ex partners, and
sometimes this shows itself in the form of trying to maintain a
friendship. It doesn't mean that if your ex is friendly with you he/she
definitely has feelings for you. But if you're getting text messages
like “good night” or phone calls just to check how you're doing
regularly then this could indicate that your ex is thinking about you
often.
Your ex is still single
Generally
speaking, when people have moved on from relationships totally, they
look for new ones. But in the event that love is still lingering then
they may opt to take time to themselves instead or to have only casual
flings. Thus, unwillingness to recommit to someone new is certainly a
thing to watch out for.
If you still share an intimate relationship
It's
actually evident... Everybody likes sex, but people who have really
moved on from a relationship are probably more likely to fulfill their
needs elsewhere. If your ex keeps coming back to you after the break up
then chances are that the break up needs to be reevaluated.
If your ex is trying to hurt you..
It's
a bit ironic, but if your ex is saying things with the intention of
hurting you then he or she almost certainly still has some feelings for
you. Arguing is pretty much the number one cause of relationships
breaking down, so arguing once a relationship has reached its end just
doesn't make any sense. If your ex is behaving in such a way maybe you
should consider cutting off such relationships. But probably it means
that there are feelings present on both sides.
Your ex still visits the same hangouts
If
your ex often appears at the places that you like, and keeps “randomly”
bumping into you, then this could also be a sign of lingering feelings.
Sometimes it is hard to determine if you and your ex shared a circle of
friends to begin with, but just look for behaviors that may indicate
that your ex is looking for the opportunity to meet you.
If your ex is trying to attract you
Your
ex is trying to impress you: for example, a better job (when money was
an issue in your relationships), changes in looks (in order to catch the
eyes of their ex), etc. Such behavior could be a sign, too.
Mutual friends say so
Talk
to mutual friends. Gossip doesn't stop after high school, so get into
the thick of it and see what other people have to say; you might hear
exactly what you want to hear.
Social networking websites point towards this
Social
networks is one of the key tools nowadays to make others jealous. If
you find that your ex has suddenly added new attractive friends then
there may be a reason for this beyond simple extroversion. This is
particularly true if you notice flirty wall comments floating back and
forth between your ex and some new individual. If your ex seems to be
out to make you jealous then it means that strong feelings remained.
Your ex is there for you..
If
you are undergoing problems in life and your ex is there for you to
support you, it may be a sign. Your ex being there for you doesn't
necessarily mean that the relationship has hope of being revived, but...
If your ex is trying to see you often
Lastly,
if your ex is still asking you to hang out or still making efforts to
see you regularly then there could be hope for your relationship to
start anew. After the relationships are over people stop "dating", but
if your ex is treating you the same way as before, then it's likely that
the feelings haven't changed that much.
However,
remember: it's important that you don't allow yourself to be taken
advantage of or strung along. There are those out there who can't let go
of the past but still want nothing to do with it. Always recognize that
the relationship may not have the capability to begin anew, but there
are some situations where it certainly does.
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